Positive Psychology Column
for 3-16-03
By Tom Muha, Ph.D.
Scientific Formula for Happiness
Wouldn't it be nice if there was a scientific formula that you could follow that would teach
you how to be happier? Good news! Recently released research in psychology has provided the
first such overview of the factors necessary for achieving a deep level of happiness.
Here is an easy to understand formula that identifies the important ingredients:
H = S + E + I
H is your enduring level of happiness
S represents your inherited set range of responsiveness
E encompasses the external circumstances of your life:
- Working in a wealthy democracy
- Being married
- Avoiding negative events and emotions
- Acquiring a rich social network
- Being religious/spiritual
- Having a mentor
I involves the internal factors under your voluntary control:
- Positive view of the past
- Optimism about the future
- Satisfaction regarding the present
- Commitment to good character
- Utilization of signature strengths in work, love, play and purpose
- Contributions to a higher purpose
When scientists examine set range, they are looking at how your genetic background influences
your mood. About half of the time your mood states are the same as those of your biological
parents. Your set range functions much like an automatic thermostat in a house that adjusts
the temperature without your having to do anything.
However, research on extremely happy people has shown that it is possible to increase your
level of happiness beyond the level of your parents. Just like that thermostat, you can
override the automatic programming.
To do that you must follow the three steps I discussed in last week's column - control your
thoughts, make choices based on your character strengths, and honor your commitments to other
people. This formula helps you to understand the dimensions of life are which are important
for you to consider as you are struggling with your thoughts, facing tough choices, and making
the commitments that give meaning to your life.
As you can see from the external factors in the formula, there are a number of life choices
that have been found to be associated with happiness. Generally speaking establishing and
maintaining positive relationships as well as a strong spiritual connection has been found to
be essential elements in the lives of happy people.
Most influential are the internal factors. Making choices every day to bring happiness
into your life is the most powerful means of making your life happier. This process begins
by transforming your negative thoughts about the past, present and future into positive images.
Your negative emotions produce fight, flight or freeze responses. When you are filled with
negative feelings, you focus on what is wrong and become highly motivated to eliminate it. This
produces win-lose games in your relationships and disconnects you from your spiritual center,
which is just the opposite of what produces happiness.
Two other internal factors are also important: developing and using your character
strengths and making meaningful contributions to the world. Researchers studied cultures
around the globe and found that there are 24 character strengths that are common among people
who have the highest levels of life satisfaction. They also discovered that people who have
the deepest feelings of joy are those who are committed to helping others.
To learn more about this research I recommend that you read Authentic Happiness by Martin
Seligman.
Tom Muha is a psychologist in
Annapolis. He welcomes your comments and questions. To contact him call (443)
454-7274 or email him at tom@achievinghappiness.com.
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